I actually want have a child(s) before I turn thirty. In 5 years, I’ll be twenty five and hopefully I’ll be living a life that is suitable to raise a child. In all honesty, twenty five isn’t a young age to have a kid. In my opinion, if you’re mature enough and stable enough to have children then why not? Of course different things come to play like losing your job or not having a place to live because something out of the blue happened, but that’s life. You think you’re going to get a perfect life after you have a child? Life actually gets a lot harder.
I want to be young when I have kids because I want to make sure that I have enough time in this world to see them grow up. I just don’t want to take any chances of not being able to be there for my child. I also want to get married before I’m 30. Is that weird? If I don’t get married by that time, then I’m sure I’ll get married some day but 30 years old seems like a good age. Not too old and not too young. I also don’t believe in marriage before sex. I have never beleived in it, it’s my opinion and others will do what they want or believe in but I’m not those people. I wasn’t raised in a religious household, we’re Catholics, but we’re not super religious. Growing up on an island has sort of had an impact on the way I was raised. In our culture, before Christianity was brought to the island, we had our own beliefs and our own way of life.
In five years, I hope that I’m doing what I love, I hope I have a nice home and a steady income. A lot could happen in just a few years and maybe I won’t get what I want because God has other plans for me but until then, this is what I want. Career wise, I’ve wrote about this one way too much, I don’t know what I want. I’m still trying to figure that part out but maybe in a year or two, I’ll get it and if I’m still blogging, you all would know.
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